Comments on: Are adoptees “lost”? http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost Provides information, resources, and thoughts concerning adoptees and their journey of adoption. Tue, 17 Nov 2009 00:38:41 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: lizza http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-281 lizza Wed, 27 Jun 2007 20:05:36 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-281 well I do agree people dont want to hear how an adopted person could feel unhappy about being adopted they kind of want to ignore that kind of person well I do agree people dont want to hear how an adopted person could feel unhappy about being adopted they kind of want to ignore that kind of person

]]> By: lizza http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-280 lizza Wed, 27 Jun 2007 19:56:45 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-280 I am adopted and I felt lost to the system and I felt neglected to people where does that leave me I am adopted and I felt lost to the system and I felt neglected to people where does that leave me

]]> By: lizza http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-279 lizza Wed, 27 Jun 2007 19:47:30 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-279 I do feel like i was left in a shopping basket or left and some adoptive parents took me to call as there own I do feel lost I do feel like i was left in a shopping basket or left and some adoptive parents took me to call as there own I do feel lost

]]> By: lizza http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-278 lizza Wed, 27 Jun 2007 19:44:13 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-278 I do feel lost and I am adopted I do feel like I was left somewhere and the adoptive parents took me home I cant help but feeling that way like you said at the top I do feel lost and I am adopted I do feel like I was left somewhere and the adoptive parents took me home I cant help but feeling that way like you said at the top

]]> By: Abby http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-277 Abby Fri, 15 Jun 2007 04:00:41 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-277 Shell,<br /> <br /> Adoption is NOT all about LOSS!!! That is just how you see it and want others to see it.<br /> <br /> Abby Shell,

Adoption is NOT all about LOSS!!! That is just how you see it and want others to see it.

Abby

]]> By: Shell http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-276 Shell Fri, 15 Jun 2007 02:37:24 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-276 This has nothing to with the type of parents an adoptee gets.<br /> <br /> Did I say anything about parents? Losing a family is losing a family - who raises a child after the loss of their parents isn't the point - it's the issue of loss for the adoptees and her/his mother, father and family. This has nothing to with the type of parents an adoptee gets.

Did I say anything about parents? Losing a family is losing a family – who raises a child after the loss of their parents isn’t the point – it’s the issue of loss for the adoptees and her/his mother, father and family.

]]> By: Abby http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-275 Abby Wed, 13 Jun 2007 07:04:41 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-275 Shell,<br /> <br /> You and other adoptees have the right to feel "lost" but it does not all adoptees feel that way. <br /> <br /> I am sorry that that you feel adoption was wrong for you and that you were lost to the system. <br /> <br /> The truth is that a lot of adoptees feel that they gain wonderful parents through adoption. <br /> <br /> Abby<br /> <br /> Shell,

You and other adoptees have the right to feel “lost” but it does not all adoptees feel that way.

I am sorry that that you feel adoption was wrong for you and that you were lost to the system.

The truth is that a lot of adoptees feel that they gain wonderful parents through adoption.

Abby

]]> By: Abby http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-274 Abby Wed, 13 Jun 2007 06:57:55 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-274 soblessed,<br /> <br /> You are right about not telling an adoptee how they should be feeling.<br /> Yes adoption does have some negatives but it also has a number of positives. Thanks:)<br /> <br /> Abby<br /> soblessed,

You are right about not telling an adoptee how they should be feeling.
Yes adoption does have some negatives but it also has a number of positives. Thanks:)

Abby

]]> By: Abby http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-273 Abby Wed, 13 Jun 2007 06:38:25 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-273 Pat,<br /> <br /> I am been blessed to adopted three of my foster children. It is not always easy but it is sure worth it. Thanks for the support. <br /> <br /> Abby<br /> <br /> Pat,

I am been blessed to adopted three of my foster children. It is not always easy but it is sure worth it. Thanks for the support.

Abby

]]> By: Abby http://adoptee.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/are-adoptees-lost/comment-page-1#comment-272 Abby Wed, 13 Jun 2007 06:34:20 +0000 http://adoptee.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/05/25/are-adoptees-lost#comment-272 Frances,<br /> <br /> Thank you for commenting. There are a lot of happy adoptees out there, more than some would like to give. <br /> <br /> Abby Frances,

Thank you for commenting. There are a lot of happy adoptees out there, more than some would like to give.

Abby

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